We had a http://besthookupwebsites.org/sugar-daddies-usa sex problem on our wedding night, and for the next 16 months after that
a worldly perspective (�my sexuality.�) I’d never thought of it in quite those terms before. I have believed for a long time that any problem *in* the bedroom has a root cause *outside* the bedroom. What a difference it would make if we were all more communicative, compassionate and compromising with our spouses…in every area of marriage!
Disagree. How do I know? The problem? We didn’t have sex � not try and fail, not not doing it well. Not even trying AT ALL. Reason given: �Its just not who I am, and its just not that important� was the reason given to me. Despite the fact that we went thru premarital before marriage that covered exactly how important it was. There wasn’t even a -chance- to have a problem outside the bedroom yet! In our case, the problem in the bedroom has caused tons of problems outside the bedroom.
I agree with you. Incompatibility can be used as excuses that we ought to work through in the ways that you laid out. Thanks hosting the linkup today.
Interesting post. You do bring up some great arguments. The problem is that as a whole I agree with you, and other Christian author’s I’ve read on the subject. However my husband does not. He loves me, is faithful and won’t leave me. But he does believe we are on �different sheets of music�. If that is what he believes, and is willing to accept, then denying it isn’t true, just doesn’t solve the problem. I was a virgin when we got married (as a matter of fact at the ripe old age of 25 he was my first kiss), he was not. So, obviously he knows something here that I do not. I love you advice, and that of other great Christians I’ve heard and read over the years, but 9 years later the problems have not gone away. Continue reading “Excellent point on the difference in viewing from a biblical perspective (�our sexuality�) vs”